Monthly Archives: March 2019

“Shut up!” he explained.

The title summarizes much of what passes for discourse and discussion today. We are more likely, it seems, to attack than converse. We tend to disagree so disagreeably. We appear to have lost the ability to have helpful conversations about areas where we may differ. This negatively affects us in our jobs, our families and our friendships.

Perhaps it is partially the result of media and social media. News shows have purveyors of opposing views talk over each other as though the best volume provides the best logic. Social media rewards demeaning attacks with attention and followers as though exclamation points make the point. Is there a better way?

James 1:19 provides some valuable insight for us. “Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to anger.” Here, God’s word gives us three ways to improve our Continue reading

Tell Your Story

Good thoughts from my sweet wife!

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My story is not a dramatic one, but it starts in the shadow of pain.

I was born 10 months after the tragic death of a sister, only eight months old.

Pain has a way of shaping you, and my sweet mother was never the same after losing a child.  I know.  She’s told me.

Momma calls me her “sanity child” because having a new baby to care for helped her to take her focus off her pain and instead, concentrate on keeping this new baby– and a two-year-old little boy safe and healthy.

I can vividly remember when my first son was born.  Bringing him home from the hospital was exciting and scary.  This precious bundle was fully reliant on me to meet his needs.  Sleep was never again the same, always listening for breathing sounds and getting up to check on him often, the two to three hours…

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